Stress Relief Workshop Proves Positive

December’s Stress Review Workshop

What struck me at the start of this workshop as people introduced themselves, was just how many reasons we have to be stressed in our lives these days.  In fact, I began to wonder how any of us cope at all. But, also right from the beginning, as everyone told their story, I heard how resilient they were, and how creative they found were in finding a path through their situations.

This ability to be adaptable, and also to support each other, only became more obvious as the evening went on. But, the most wonderful thing of all, was the humour people brought, despite their stresses and anxieties. To these remarkable qualities, the workshop added reliable, research-tested techniques that everyone can use to begin developing a state of greater calm no matter what challenging situations life throws at us.

On top of this, it gave the participants the opportunity to tease out their individual thought processes which worsen their stress, and to change them for more helpful ones.

The last part of the evening was given to conflict resolution and communication skills for stressful interactions with others, whether at work or at home.

As the facilitator, it was wonderful to work with such an inspiring group; thank you.

“Thank you for a great evening. I learnt such a lot, and felt so supported by the other people in the group.” Amy

“Before the workshop, I had been thinking that I would have to quit my job, it was just too stressful. Now, I’m coping much better, and am even beginning to enjoy it.” Keith

You can see more testimonials here.

To find out about our next stress workshop, please get in touch with Sarah:

Telephone: 07912 357 366

Email: swiesendanger@googlemail.com

You can also book online.

Keeping the Slate Clean – Forgiveness as Stress-Buster

“Forgiving is the most selfish thing you can do.” Hearing that from Caroline Myss certainly made me stop and think. And when I pass it on to my clients, they invariably look at me as if I’m not quite to be trusted.

Because usually we see ourselves as big-hearted and giving when we forgive, sensing it as a gift to the other person. And yet, if we don’t forgive, we don’t move on. The person who we feel has wronged us, still has power over us because their action, in part, prescribes who we are today. We continue to suffer.

When two Second World War veterans met many years after being released from a Japanese prisoner of war camp, the one asked the other if he had forgiven their captors. “No. I shall never forgive them.” “Oh”, said the first, “so they still have you imprisoned, then.”

Breaking free, involves forgiving which, of course, is not the same as condoning. We can forgive, and also make an intention that we will not allow that transgression to be visited on us, or indeed anyone else, again. It reminds me of the old saying: “kind [to yourself, by forgiving], but firm [in maintaining to your boundaries]”.

 

 

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