Optimistic Thinking versus Fantasy

Successful people dream up a vision. From this, they can create a goal towards which they aspire. But, in order to turn the vision into reality, the dreaming – or fantasising – must stop. A more dynamic mindset is required.

Fantasies of success tend to lead to inactivity, and so low performance.

Positive expectation, on the other hand, is linked to high aspiration and optimistic thinking. These lead to productive cognition, problem-solving, high performance, and prosocial behaviour. It is a strong motivator. In fact, in a thirty-year longtidunal study (Peterson, MEP, et al), optimistic thinking was shown to be good for you health, slowing the progress of both acute and chronic disease. Conversely, fantasy has a negative outcome on health.

Our brains are designed to fulfil expectations. It’s partly how we corroborate our personal world view. It stands to reason, then, that if we expect a particular outcome and think optimistically about this, our mindset will be configured to achieve that expectation.

Fantasising, however, precludes realisation, wrapped up, as it is, in a tissue of unreality; from the outset, there is the belief that it can’t really come true. And so, guess what, that expectation is fulfilled.

When we employ optimistic thinking, we are less likely to give up when luck doesn’t seem to be on our side; in other words, we create our destiny. If opportunity doesn’t come knocking, we build a door…

Do you have the right kind of dreams?

Are your dreams more about running away, away, avoiding, hiding; or are they about embracing, commitment, passion, and love?

It’s more psychologically healthy to move towards something, than to try to retreat, even if that something is challenging, or painful.

Moving forwards to achieve what we want, rather than to avoid what we don’t, is also more likely to allow for success. Consider the difference between wanting to be lawyer because you care passionately about upholding people’s human rights, and wanting to be a lawyer so that you can charge exorbitant fees and buy an expensive house. Which motivation is more likely to bring you deep contentment and fulfilment?

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