Do you have the right kind of dreams?

Are your dreams more about running away, away, avoiding, hiding; or are they about embracing, commitment, passion, and love?

It’s more psychologically healthy to move towards something, than to try to retreat, even if that something is challenging, or painful.

Moving forwards to achieve what we want, rather than to avoid what we don’t, is also more likely to allow for success. Consider the difference between wanting to be lawyer because you care passionately about upholding people’s human rights, and wanting to be a lawyer so that you can charge exorbitant fees and buy an expensive house. Which motivation is more likely to bring you deep contentment and fulfilment?

Top tip for re-connecting with your passion and life purpose

If you woke up one morning recently and realised that there’s not a lot in your life that makes your heart sing, or if a similar realisation has been dawning on you gradually over a period of time – then this tip could help to turn things around. Our souls are a little like gardens: fed and watered, they blossom; with a harsh, dry wind of boredom, they quickly turn to desert.

A reliable indicator of how well you are nurtured is to notice how easily you become tired. If you’re living your dream, passionate about what you do, have a sense of meaning and purpose, your energy can be boundless.

But if that doesn’t describe your average day, then you may want to consider doing this:

Taking a pen and paper, write down the five things you loved doing most when you were a child. What was it about them that interested you most?

Now write down the five things that were most precious to you as a child. What meaning did they have for you?

As you remember these activities and things, what emotions come up for you? How does your heart respond?

Pick one thing from each list with which you can re-connect this week. How can you integrate them more permanently into your present life?

 

To work more fully with Sarah on your  passion and life purpose, contact her to discuss a bespoke life coaching programme.

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