Are your dreams more about running away, away, avoiding, hiding; or are they about embracing, commitment, passion, and love?
It’s more psychologically healthy to move towards something, than to try to retreat, even if that something is challenging, or painful.
Moving forwards to achieve what we want, rather than to avoid what we don’t, is also more likely to allow for success. Consider the difference between wanting to be lawyer because you care passionately about upholding people’s human rights, and wanting to be a lawyer so that you can charge exorbitant fees and buy an expensive house. Which motivation is more likely to bring you deep contentment and fulfilment?